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Jul 01
2008
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Characteristics of Dysfunctional CouplesPosted by Shirin Nooravi in Untagged |
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CHARACTERISTICS OF DYSFUNCTIONAL COUPLES
- 1. Being together and unhappy is safer than being alone.
- 2. It is safer to be with other people than to be alone and intimate with our partner.
- 3. If I really let my partner know what I've done or what I'm feeling and thinking [who I am], she/he will leave me.
- 4. It is easier to hide [medicate] our feelings through our addictive/compulsive behavior than it is to express them.
- 5. Being enmeshed and totally dependent with one anotheris perceived as being in love.
- 6. We find it difficult to ask for what we need, both individually and as a couple.
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